Valentine’s Day, a holiday often recognized with romance and chocolate, but at Lakeside High, students’ experiences vary widely. This February, I’m exploring how different students navigate throughout the day and what they do. Whether they are in a relationship, single, or celebrating the time with family and friends, the message is pretty clear: Valentine’s Day at Lakeside is what YOU make of it.
Celebrating Love in All forms
For some, Valentine’s Day means celebrating romantic relationships. Lakeside student Josie Archila (10th) who shared her way of doing things: “I plan to spend Valentine’s Day with my boyfriend, then with friends.” Furthermore she says, “I think it’s nice to have a balance of really important people in my life, and spend the holiday with everyone I love.” Josie’s perspective emphasizes her affection and care for those she loves in her circle.
On the other hand, others seek a more personal experience on this special day. Another student Dayeni Gonzalez (11th) plans for a smaller social circle. She says, “It will be a normal day for me.” She also shares her plans with her family adding, “I’ll buy my family candy and flowers.” Her thinking captures the essence of making Valentine’s day feel authentic and nice, focusing on the simple acts of kindness and comfort to what she says is a “chill day.”
Crafting Your Own Valentine’s
Trying to create your own day on Valentines can be lonely, affected by social media, and just seeing other people in a relationship can seem like you’re missing out. But as different people do different things, there’s no actual “right” way to celebrate. For those who are single, you can have a day full of self care time; this is where self love shines. Consider dedicating the day to recharge and doing things you love. This could mean a relaxing spa day at home, diving into a captivating book, or even a move. The goal is to nurture yourself in activities that make you happy and things that make you feel good regardless of relationship status.
Valentines Day:Your Way
The temptation to compare your day to others on social media can be envious, but it’s a trap to be avoided. Focus on what brings you happiness. This might involve reaching out to friends to catch up, exploring a new hobby, or just a quiet day of reflection. Valentine’s Day offers opportunities to celebrate with your friends and family! You could also look forward to Galentine’s Day fostering a feeling of community and appreciation. But, the point is to feel comfortable, not pressured into people’s romantic love lives but to make this day about yourself, your family, your friends, and if you have a partner. Whatever it is, the power is in your hands to create a meaningful Valentine’s Day for you.
